Sam has a day in the Malverns

Great day today, Sam and I headed off to the Malverns with Charlie & Murphy for a hike. 

Graham? "Why are we going out in the middle of the night?"  hmm...Sam, normally a morning person, struggled for a while to understand that it could be both dark....and morning??  Well, with the sun not rising until about 7:30 this morning, it was dark for quite a while after we got up.

Sandwiches packed for Sam, and a flask of Leek & Potato soup for me, we were on our way.  The weather today was fabulous,  but it was an interesting drive down...very cold overnight, and the roads were like sheet glass with black ice everywhere. 

Anyway, we got there...and pretty soon Sam was off chasing after the dogs up over the hills.  We found our first waypoint, and headed off to find the Giant's cave....not sure that this was the right one, unless this was a very small giant, but Sam enjoyed himself imagining that he was a caveman..

We found a big handprint on the wall of the cave, although Charlie & Murphy seemed less impressed!  

Sam said to me, "when is it 11 o'clock Graham, so we can have chocolate!!"  "I wish I was made of chocolate, he says...then I would eat myself"   

We headed off up the hills, for a great view over the reservoir, Murphy & Charlie introduced themselves every other dogs on the hills today, but I kept them on the lead when this horse came strolling round the corner.  After a hike of about 2.5 miles over Hangman's Hill, and Midsummer hill up to the Obelisk, where we sat down for some well earned lunch.

Down through the woods, dodging puddles, (most of the time...Sam did decide to jump in one up to his knees!!) we wandered off down the Worcester Way until we reached Swinyard Hill, and we could pick up the reservoir again.  Another 1.5miles or so, and we were back at the car.

Sam had a fabulous day out, really enjoyed his walk round the hills.  "Are you going up much higher than this Graham?" he says as we got to the top of Hangman's Hill....Yes Sam...just a bit. 

"And are you camping at night time?"  Yes Sam

"Is it just on one night, Graham?"  no Sam....I'll be gone for 10 altogether....

"Oh great, he says...you won't be able to tell me off, so that means I can do whatever I like!!"

He kept me entertained all day with his quips, and we had a great time...thanks Sam. 

Friends Like these.....

So, on February 5th, 2011 the last BIG fundraiser for my Kilimanjaro Climb in March.

The Woodford Halse Social Club committee have come up with the most amazing offer to help my fundraising. 

Local Band, Kickstart have agreed to come along and play for free...fantastic rock from the 60's to the 00's including covers from The Kaiser Chiefs, Green Day, Madness, Snow Patrol, Paul Weller, The Jam, Primal Scream, Stereophonics, the list goes on and on....this is going to be one hell of a night.

We have a disco,  Wii games, and competitions, Raffle Prizes...this is going to be a fantastic night, and a great opportunity to support the Charity, and enjoy yourselves. 

If don't share any other blog page this year....please share this one.....lets make this the most amazing send off to my Charity Fundraising.  Autism Concern are a small, local charity, doing amazing work with children and adults, schools, social care groups affected by autism in our community.

The Social Club Committee, and the band have agreed that 100% of the funds raised on the door, and through the various competitions, raffles on the night will all be donated to help. 

I can't wait.....with friends like these......Kilimanjaro waits, patiently....I have the most fantastic wind under my wings for this challenge.  Thank you :-)

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Homework....

Schools went back today, so once again we have the nightly ritual of amazingly difficult homework for an 8 year old boy with autism (and his Mum). 

Does his school not realise that Sam does not know much about Maths!!   He does know the names of the 1st three people on the moon, and he knows what a triceritops is...he also knows loads about fire engines and smoke alarms, Tutenkhamun and World War 1.

He knows what a Tudor House looks like, he knows that Anne Boleyn had her head chopped off, and he knows where oxygen comes from. 

He knows why there is a footprint on the moon belonging to John Glenn and he also knows that they didn't bring home the lunar buggy, and that Neil Armstrong left a flag there.  He thinks they should have tidied up!!

He knows that you cannot have a shower unless you wet the bed, you never get dressed before breakfast, and you cannot possibly go to bed without a story with pictures in it. 

He has a facination with feet.  You should be sure to have shoes with laces on unless you want him to come along and take them off so he can look at your toes.  He's like a super absorbant sponge....you never realise just how much he soaks up, and suddenly, without warning you give him a squeeze and amazing facts fall out, that you just wouldn't believe he would know about.

Just what do they teach them these days??

He's quite entertaining to have around....and although he has the attention span of a goldfish, he really does know a lot more than you think!!

The moral here is....don't judge a book by the cover.  It may just contain something very interesting.

70 days to go...10 Weeks.  Kilimanjaro waits....but not for much longer :-)

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74 Days....

Well, the last 4 months have shot past...it seems like just yesterday that I was thinking to myself, how will I persuade Liz to let me do this?   Amazing that a little pop up advert can send you such a journey of discovery..(excuse the pun), but that little red box from Action Challenge which encouraged me to join up has completely transformed the last few months.

Ambition, has moved now to excitement, and now that the year has a "11" on the end of it, well it all seems very close.  In fact, it's 74 days...just 10 more Sunday's??  Blimey...that's just amazing.

I'm nearly done, preparation wise....still loads to do for fitness, but in terms of equipment, I'm there...visa to send off for, and appointments with the doctor for a few injections, and that'll be that.   Today, I confirmed my insurance, bought myself a 4-season sleeping bag, and my kit bag for the journey.   I'm sure if Liz or I sat down to work out just how much I've spent on this trip she'd be having kittens?  So I won't tell her!!

But here's a quick checklist

Boots (by now well worn & blister proof)
Day bag - 35 litres
Ruck Sack - 80 litres
Sleeping Bag - 4 season (warm enough, I hope at -20 degrees)

Walking poles

Thermals (Top & Bottom)

Mountain standard coat

Head Torch (Summit day starts with 6 hours trek through the dark to about 17,500ft to watch the sunrise before making the final ascent to the Uhuru)

Camel Back - 3litres

Water Purification tablets

Mosquitto face net

Mosquitto repellent & repellent bands

Snoods x 2

Camera (including a replacement!!)

Gloves x 2 (Cold weather & Even Colder Weather)

Water Purification Tablets

Sleeping Bag Liners

Waterproof Trousers

Thermal Hat

Diahorrea Tablets

and a Partridge in a pear tree...

All I need now....?  Your sponsorship.  

I'm doing this for a very special charity, local to Northamptonshire, where I live, helping children and adults with Autism.  Autism Concern

Reflections of years past.....

New Years Eve has always been my favourite day of the year.  A time to reflect, a time for family, a time to remind those closest to you, just how much they mean, to thank them for their love, and to commit yourself for the next year to helping each other through famine, or feast. 

As a boy growing up, Hogmanay was a time spent at home, no matter where else the party was. Comfortable in the bosom of your family, at midnight, when the bells sound, and corks fly, doors open, neighbours cram in, people move from house to house with good wishes, and good spirit.

Hogmanay is a day of community, of family and of friendship.  A day of hope, for a prosperous, and successful year, of good health, and happiness.  Sadness too, sometimes. Reflections on words said, friendships lost and hearts broken.  Hogmanay is a great healer, as with sadness, comes forgiveness and new beginnings, new resolutions, determination, purpose.  It's just a day....but a day like no other.

And so for next year, my resolutions are simple....life has changed a lot since 2003.  No longer is it straightforward to have all of the family together.  Children are growing up, wanting their own space, finding themselves, and making their own choices.  Two families to satisfy, two worlds to pull together.  

in 2011.... My resolution is the same as it always has been.  I'm a father, to five wonderful, beautiful kids.  I'm blessed with good fortune, so my commitment is to be there whenever they fall...to enjoy their successes, to encourage their flight along life's path, to support them when that path is rocky,  and to put wind in their sails when the path is clear.  To test them, to push them to succeed, to try all of life's flavours without fear, and to embrace the people around them, to recognise that it is only by embracing the challenges in life that you can live your life well. 

I've my own challenge...Kilimanjaro this year, 2011....just 76 days now until I depart on my own test.  A challenge that truly embraces life,  a challenge that recognises for me, a need to give more back than you take in life. 

Thank you for your support, and I would wish all of my friends, and my family a happy, and peaceful 2011.  I trust you will all find your goal, and have the courage to chase it down.

In 2011 I hope to raise £3500 towards Autism Concern.

Donate at www.justgiving.com/graham-kennedy1

A Boxing Day hike...

I thought today was ideal for walking off yesterday's excesses.  Liz maintained it was far too cold to be out, but what better day to check out how my new coat, and thermals performed?





I was like toast, despite temperatures of around -8 degrees.  The coat is fabulous, and the snoods really do the job.  Actually, it was a fantastic day, although cold, it was beautifully bright, and the snow was definitely deep and crisp and even...The dogs had a field day.  Chasing around, burying their noses in the snow, and fighting over ever larger sticks.  We walked about 7 miles round the Jurrasic Way, from our house, up to Charwelton, where we stopped for a welcome lunch.  The dogs, after a bit of persuasion got themselves a sausage each, before we headed for home.

There was plenty of virgin snow on our walk, and it looked like for much of the route, only the farmer may have been out and about.  It's a route we've done many times, and Charwelton Church looked magnificent today, isolated as it is. 

Northamptonshire has a great history, and this church, and the village that was around it have been deserted since the mid 15th century, after the War of the Roses.  Right now, all that surrounds it are sheep.  

Meanwhile Christmas was an unusual one this year.  I don't suppose too many people would be delighted if they received gifts of water purification tablets, anti diahorrea salts, and mosquitto repellant sprays, and cuffs?   My Kilimanjaro war-chest if almost complete, just a small matter of selecting a decent 4-season sleeping bag, and I'll have all the kit sorted. 

Just 81 days to go!!!   I can hardly wait :-)  

Visa to apply for....Yellow fever vaccination to arrange, and half a stone to lose....easy.

Coffee anyone...??

Anyone who knows me will know that this is something I'm notoriously poor at....but this morning with a full office to make for, I happily encouraged anyone who wanted one to partake :-) 

Nope, I've not turned over a new leaf....but I did have the chance to deliver a nice cup of coffee or tea to each & everyone of them, delivered, of course with a protective mat to keep the tabletops, or desks from scalding.

Great to see some of the faces, and I've had a few promises of some support on the back of them....trouble is, they want a cup every day in return...so I guess I'll be boiling the kettle a few times more than normal in the next few weeks.  

I'm considering changing my target...I'm just £104 short of my first target of £3000, and there are 3 months to go before my climb.   Thanks to everyone who's been generous enough already to donate.  If you're tempted to help Autism Concern, just click on the Just Giving button at the top of the page, and indulge :-)

Quiz Night & Christmas Fair

Well, we've had the most fantastic fundraising weekend...although it has to be said that I didn't imagine standing out in the street, selling wine bottles full of water when the temperature is about -6 degrees would be so much fun!!

Sam was very excited that Santa came past on his sleigh, and he quickly worked out that if he kept going back to see him, Santa has a really poor memory...Sam came away with 3 presents...(mostly chocolate). 

After the fair, on Saturday morning we clicked into Quiz mode...loads of final preparations to complete, like a small matter of finishing the questions list, but in the end we had Wine, Beer, Nibbles all sorted....plenty of raffle prizes, and a fantastic group of friends rolling into the Memorial Hall by 7pm. 

I think a great night was had by all....we certainly got through the wine!!   There are so many people to thank for the help in making this weekend go fantastically well. We've had a brilliant time, and this weekend alone, we've raised over £500 for Autism Concern

Now it's back to the gym.  Thank you Woodford Halse......

Dad’s big climb to help charity - News - Daventry Express

I'm not used to this press attention, haha....and it featured on page 25, not page 3....but Sam is chuffed to bits with his picture in the papers.

Hope to see loads of people at the Street Fair tonight, and joining us at our quiz night on Saturday.  Enjoy the read...or cringe quietly :-)   Thank you Daventry Express !!!


Dad’s big climb to help charity - News - Daventry Express

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A busy week...complete

We've been busy getting ready for a huge weekend of fundraising and fun.  Liz has been collecting wine bottles from pubs, clubs, neighbours...even stealing them from recycling bins. 

Samuel, Sam & Jessica have been helping prepare our table poster for this Friday's Christmas street fair, and we've been finishing our preparations for the quiz night on Saturday.....phew...breath!!

In between times, I've been on a couple of great walks around Farnborough.  It's freezing cold...minus 5 degrees on Sunday afternoon, but a completely beautiful day.

We've got the loan of the Autism Concern publicity stand for the weekend, so we'll be easy to spot at the Christmas Fair....We'll be delighted to sell you a bottle for just £1.00 each....(trouble is....will it be wine?  Or just water?)  

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Lipsmackin'thirstquenchin'acetastin'motivatin'goodbuzzin

Wow, its been a great week....

I've managed to get to the gym, been interviewed by the Daventry Express, had a photographer around to take some publicity pictures, and persuaded Thirstys of Northampton, the UK's premium manufacturer of Beer Mats to produce 500 for me free of charge.

Coming to a bar near you :-)

Back in the race...

 Ok, so not a race exactly, but I have been very lazy over the last 2 weeks.... we've had a few relaxed walks with the dogs, the kids...even followed the noise of a hunt pack the other week, without actually seeing them.  However, climbing Kilimanjaro will be slightly tougher than a stroll through the countryside, picking corn on the cob, and chasing the kids.

We did have a laugh when Murphy fell of a bridge into the stream.  

Anyway, after 2 weeks off, I decided that this weekend I needed to get active.........and then it went a bit Pete Tong!!  (Ok - translation at this point, for anyone from Russia, Turkey, Korea or of course the Netherlands...Pete Tong = Wrong!!)

2.5 hours up the road towards Shropshire was cut short by traffic problems on the way, so I end up instead in Cannock (That's #1).  I decided to go for a walk round the Chase.  Three hours was enough, I have to say, with apologies to anyone from Cannock....it was as dull as ditch-water, and I've seen loads of that recently !!  (That's #2)  If you ever fancy a scenic walk with loads features, plenty of variety and stiff enough to give you a feeling like you've exercised?  Then stay away from here!  I wouldn't describe it as totally boring, but only because it's not that nice.

Anyway, these things happen in 3's yes?  And so it happened...Charlie, despite the nature of the walk, had managed to dig himself into a few holes, jump into a few pools and cover himself in muck...so he was going in the back on the way home...relegated from his relative comfort on the way there.

The estate was full, so while I moved the contents to the back seat to make room for Charlie, I placed my camera onto the roof of the car and......yep...you can guess the rest!!  (That's #3)   Fortunately, this means I have no pictures of Cannock Chase to share with you!!

I've never been particularly superstitious, but maybe I should have exercised more in the last two weeks?  The payback was a bit rough mind....I mean,  why guide me towards Cannock for a walk??

Suitably punished for my lack of effort in the last two weeks, tonight I went back to the gym.  I may brave the wrath of Mr Wii in the morning....I'm sure he won't be too tough on me.

There has been a couple of positive things to report in the last couple of weeks....my friends at Catalyst Logistics became the first sponsor of my Kilimanjaro coat, adding £201 to my fund.   Thanks to Jeremy Batchelor & his colleagues for the huge donation.  

And, the Northampton Saints, who have already come up trumps with their enthusiasm and assistance publicising my challenge in their match program donated 2 match tickets, which were purchased for another £50 in the pot.  £2370 raised....4 months to go.  Bring it on!!

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Birthday home truths....

I'm 44 tomorrow...Sam told me this morning "you're fat, and you're old, and we need to throw you in the tip.""  Goodness knows what he thought in August...I may have been 3 months younger, but I was also 20lbs heavier. 

Still, it doesn't do any harm to have a little motivation from time to time...I think I'll give Sam a wide berth when choosing a personal trainer though!!  The trouble with living with an autistic child is that he finds it very difficult to lie.  He's not for the faint hearted...and you are advised never to ask if your bum looks big in this!!

Slightly more of a motivation is that my fundraising profile has taken a bit of a boost in the last week.  Firstly, Snix magazine, (Special Needs Index for Northamptonshire) printed a full page poster advert, and then the Parcelforce News printed a lovely article highlighting my challenge.  Between them, possibly an audience of 000's so all I need to do now is work out how to capitalise on the publicity.

We also have a feature in the November WOW (Whats on in Woodford)...Liz is organising a quiz night on December 4th to help with the fundraising.  I think it's likely that I'll end up with the job of hostess with the mostest....or maybe just 100 questions or so.   We're collecting plenty of prizes for a raffle on the night, as well as some decent prizes for the winners.  It should be a fun night. 

The training is picking up too, I've been doing a bit more running, and a bit less cycling, as I prepare for my 10k race (haha...did I say race??)  on the 21st of November.  In the mean time, I have loads to do...I've an appointment next week with Jeremy Batchelor at Catalyst Logistics to collect a nice cheque for £201 towards my target.

This whole challenge is a bit of a logistics nightmare...pack everything you need for 7 nights in a tent in temperatures ranging from +30 to -24 degrees, kicking off in tropical rainforest,  through lifeless dry tundra, and up onto a frozen icecap with no oxygen....oh...and make sure you can fit it all into just two bags, weighing less than 25kgs between them.  (remember you have to carry one of them 63kms up 19,340ft).

So, who better to be the first sponsor of my coat for the challenge than a specialist in Logistics planning & design?  I'm delighted to have them supporting me, and it's given me a great idea for the remaining space on the coat :-)....

Onwards & upwards.....(I think thats what it's likely to be all about).